About Emilie Allen, Student Intern
Relationship & Individual Therapy
Let’s talk about deepening understanding
Hi there! My name is Emilie Allen (She/Her). I believe that understanding and compassion create a space where growth and change can happen. Sometimes we find ourselves living out old patterns and stories, with the life or the relationship we want feeling out of reach. By uncovering emotions and beliefs and exploring where they come from, we can begin to know ourselves and one another more fully. Through a warm, collaborative approach, I aspire to help my clients heal within their relationships and within themselves, so that they can get unstuck, become the best version of them, and live their most aligned and fulfilling lives.
I hold a Bachelor’s degree from Chapman University and am just a semester away from receiving my Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy from Regis University. I have clinical experience working with a wide range of clients, including couples, individual adults, families, and children. I have helped clients navigate big life transitions, heal through past betrayals, fortify their relationship in pre-marital counseling, disrupt conflict cycles and form more secure bonds, manage stress, process grief, improve their anxiety or depression, and grow overall in the ways they desire to.
I take an integrated therapeutic approach, pulling from many theories in my work. With couples, I often incorporate Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, helping clients get in touch with their emotions and fostering more empathy and healthier communication. With individuals, I use approaches that focus on core beliefs and emotions. I invite clients to explore their past and the parts of themselves that were forged and maintained over the course of their lives, and then ask how those parts can best serve them today. I take a somatic approach, which means I am consistently mindful of the vital role of our nervous systems and how we can work with them to improve how we feel and how we show up. I also use an attachment lens, considering my clients in the context of their most significant relationships.
I love working with clients who are growth-minded, often asking themselves, “What can I learn from this experience?” Life can be really hard, and meaning-making can be the light that guides us forward. I see life as a journey that is both meant to be enjoyed and to challenge us to evolve. I see my role in the therapy room as a guide, a mirror, a facilitator, and a collaborator, walking alongside my clients on their own life path.
Relationship & Individual Therapy
What makes us who we are?
Have you ever found yourself wondering what drives the many ways we show up in the world? There is so much to learn about ourselves and others – how we grew up, our relationships with our family of origin, the parts of us that developed to protect us, and our needs and fears (that sometimes show up in disguise). Falling in love, whether with another or ourselves, happens when we are truly seen and known. And it is when we step into our truest authenticity that we can experience intimacy and connection with those we love. I would be honored to serve as a guide for you in that pursuit.
My Specialties
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Personal Growth
I help individuals explore the emotional experiences, thoughts, beliefs, and stories that color their lives and shape who they are today. In a journey of self-discovery, I celebrate with you as you uncover the truest expression of you, and encourage you to cultivate compassion for the parts of you you’d like to work on. In this way, you can begin to rewrite old beliefs that hold you back and experience yourself in new ways.
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Relationship Therapy
I meet couples where they are at and walk alongside them as they tackle a wide range of challenges. I consider the ways attachment styles and the recurring communication patterns that accompany them influence the relationship. Through getting in touch with emotional needs, my work with couples aims to foster deeper empathy within the connection and leave partners with new, healthier ways of working through problems.
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Spirituality
For many, discussing spirituality in the therapy room is essential in processing life events and making meaning out of experiences. I welcome religion and spirituality in our work together, integrating your faith and belief system into our work for your most fulfilling experience.